Updated: Oct 2, 2020
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I admired people with a good, hearty collection of adult novelties. Whips, crops, floggers, rope, blindfolds, and spurs intrigued me. Curious about their usage, but afraid to express my desires.
Thank goodness for growth.
On my journey to really uncover all my kinks and fetishes, I started with the basics--vibes. There are several types that provide penetrative, clitoral, and g-spot stimulation. And while vibrating dildos are cool, I enjoy a perfectly designed vibe for some clit love.
For this post though, I want to highlight three vibes I've tried in the last few months and some feedback for those looking to either start their collection or add to it. To note, each of the toys highlighted is fairly silent, silcone-based so not to harm the skin or natural pH of the body, and have unique shapes.
First, the OhMyG from Ioba Toys.
Purpose: G-spot massager
Design: curvy feel, C-shape to comfortably reach the G-spot
Feature: super silent with a massaging pearl
What I like about the OhMyG is the soft feel and the unique C-shape design. It's damn near silent, so if you're trying to do a quick solo session without catching attention, it works. What I found is the massaging pearl at the tip works great for clitoral stimulation. Once I began to penetrate; however, there was a bit of a challenge.
I have stage 4 endometriosis and an inverted uterus, so often I tighten up if the object of insertion conflicts with the natural curvature of my body. The workaround is to be fully aroused prior to, particularly if you have endo or vaginismus. Lube doesn't hurt either. Additionally, if you slide the toy too far in, you'll definitely hit your cervix. Some vulva owners may enjoy cervical orgasms, but if this is your first time, you may experience a bit of discomfort. Don't get discouraged, though. Ease into it and "listen" to how it adapts.
If you've never had a g-spot orgasm and want to work towards this level of pleasure, the OhMyG is definitely for you. It'll be tight, you'll feel like you have to pee, but it's important to breathe and pause when the sensation becomes overwhelming. Be gentle here. Remember this is about pleasure and hold space for your body to adjust.
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Next, the Blush Aria Vibrance Soft Vibrator.
Purpose: Clitoral and penetrative stimulation
Design: Soft, vertical, textural feel
Feature: Waterproof, flexible shaft that adapts to the body
I was introduced to the Aria Vibrance from the Xplore Box, a bi-monthly subscription box for adult novelties. Of course, I was excited because it looked so pretty in the package.
I was pleasantly surprised.
The sound isn't loud, and I use it mainly for clitoral stimulation but when I want to switch it up, I slide it between my lower lips, up the setting, and let that thang work. What I like most is the textured feel. For those of us who have good control of our vaginal walls or have texture as an erotic language, the shape is a wonderful sensation. The Aria Vibrance is my go-to for a quickie and when I'm just looking to relieve some stress sans orgasm.
It's the perfect complement for partnered sex and if you do it doggy style, be sure to place the Aria on your clit at the third setting and thank me later.
Interested? You can purchase it here.
And while you're there, sign up for the Xplore bi-monthly subscription or try their Discover Box and be surprised with their curated shop items.
Last, but not least, Tracey's Dog OG- Clitoral Sucking Vibrator.
Purpose: Clitoral vibrator
Design: Soft, v-shape with clitoral suction and textured shaft
Feature: Quiet vibration, waterproof
I was definitely late to the game on this one. This was unanimously recommended in a group I'm in and it's one of the best purchases I've made for my personal pleasure. At first use, I had an incredible orgasm. The clitoral suction is great, particularly for those who have a large clit. The suction and the dildo have their own settings, so you can curate the sensation on your clit and within your walls. It's a great preface to penetrative sex if you choose to include a partner, but if you're making room to be your own best fuck, Tracey's Dog is the perfect B.O.B.
It comes with a cute silk carrier for travel and fits discreetly in your novelty drawer or any luggage if you're sneaking away for fun with your partner or a quick quarantined getaway.
You can purchase the OG Clitoral Sucking Vibrator here.
We may be sheltered in place for a while, but that's doesn't mean your pleasure should be compromised. Check the vibe and ensure your pussy feels loved.